do you promise to let our daughter be fat or skinny or any weight at all? because we want her to be happy no matter what. being obsessed with weight is just too cliche for our daughter. // yes, i do. do you promise, when she talks, you’ll listen? like, really listen, especially when she is scared && that her fights will be your fights? // i do. & do you promise that if i die some embarrassing and boring death that you’re gonna tell our daughter that her father was killed by russian soldiers in this intense hand-to-hand combat in an attempt to save the lives of 850 chechnyan orphans? // i do. chechnyan orphans. i do. i do.